on January 28, 2008

Stop Expecting

" Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Believe it, it is real. But only for a season."

i have always observed that root cause for a fight with some one like your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, your friends, parents or it may be anyone , or feeling bad about any event is this strange thing called "EXPECTATION".

We always feel good about someone , we start spending time with some one and after some time we assume that he/she understands us and will take care of our needs and will understand us and when it does not happen , it hurts , we are in sorrow, it becomes such a big issue for us that we feel cheated and uncared and then we feel bad.

Instead, This all happens just because we "expected" someone to do something and he/she did not do it. rather people must try to be independent and should be ready for the worst case. There are some people you can really expect and its fine to expect from them like your parents, children , spouse, lover etc ...but to some extent, everything has some limit. If you expect a lot from them you get hurt sometime. Be ready to be self dependent and just think understand that every person other than you wont understand more than you , so they cant understand your needs...

they cant understand what you want at which time, so no one can take care of you more than yourself... so be your caretaker yourself. Once people understand this there 90% problems are solved...


Ritu said...

Cant Agree less...!!!!